My 2011 birthday

 

My birthday?? when? Last month lo...till now I have chance to upload and keep as a memory here. hahaha! Thanks dear, thanks for the surprise..love it!

My 2011 Valentine

 

Thanks for the flower from Indonesia~ 

Love never end~

Happy Chinese New Year 兔年行大运!

Outing without Megan baby

Thinking to eat steamboat, but how can I bring along baby Megan?? so....bad mommy leave her with her grandmother and go out with Mr.Quah to have steamboat buffet. wakekke!!! This is the first time I separate with her so "long time". Since she was in my tummy, and till now she never separate with me so long time. When we finish our dinner back home, she was very excited and hug me very tight!! hehe...sweet~

Em....about the steamboat, the type of food is very variety, and the price is quite cheap..if no mistaken just Rm17.80 per person. Why no give a try. And we are the early bird in the restaurant, no any customer there. No choice we have to eat faster and go back faster to fetch Baby Megan home. I really enjoy the food with Mr.Quah..we both so long time never "Chang toi goek" already

My dear father is away from me forever....we miss him very much

3 Dec 2010 is a sad day for me, and I will remember this day forever and ever. This day is the day I lost my dear father. Everything happen so suddenly and I really can't accept it till now. But he already suffer from heart disease few years, is time for him to rest.

Pa,
I will always remember you, you will always alive in my heart. I love you. Do enjoy yourself in the heaven, and I will always remember what you told me, what you teach me. Thanks you, you bring me to this beautiful world. Love you always and always!!

对付“叛逆”宝宝实用策略

Megan start throw tantrum nowadays (9 months 4 weeks). Really headache to face her temper for example if you give her something, if she still want it, but you never notice, you just take off, she will cry, or sometime will scream!! then refuse solid food again, previously she already accept and eat happily but start from last 2 days, she refuse again, just want milk. If I insisted to give her solid food, she will cry too!!

Now I search some tips to overcome her bad temper!! naughty naughty naugthy megan!!

对待处在逆反期的宝宝不能采取硬碰硬的方式，这样只能让他的逆反心理更加强烈。父母过分激烈的反应会给他一个错误的感觉，即当他说不的时候，他能得到父母更多的关注，因此，他会更多地使用这种方式来吸引父母的注意。

逆反是每个宝宝都会经历的过程，要应付逆反的宝宝，父母需要一些策略。不妨试试以下的方法：

1、来点小幽 默，让气氛不再那么紧张严肃。比如你想要宝宝进澡盆洗澡，但他就是不肯去，如果你强行将他抱入澡盆，或者训斥他一番，让他去洗澡，那么事情肯定会变得很糟 糕。这时，不妨给宝宝来点小幽默：“洗澡水倒好了，看看谁的小腿跑得快，快告诉你的小屁股，让他坐进澡盆。”这样与平时不同的语言会带给宝宝一种新鲜感， 因此他会乐于接受父母的建议。

2、让宝宝放松警惕。如果宝宝对什么事情都说不，不妨给他一些特别可笑的选择，一直引导他不停地说“不”，这时候，他就会放松警惕，将注意力集中在那些可笑的问题上，于是，你就可以顺势找到机会把他拽到你要他去的地方，或者让他做你想要他做的事情。

3、把任务变 成有趣的游戏。宝宝都喜欢游戏，如果将任务变成游戏，相信他会比较乐于接受。比如，他总是不想去厕所，并因此总尿湿裤子，父母可以在估计他要上厕所的时 候，将他扛起来：“现在我要扛着这把枪，让他到厕所发射子弹了。”这样的建议，会让宝宝很快就忘记他的不，乖乖地跟着你走。于是上厕所的任务就变成了一种 有趣的游戏，他也就不会说不了。

4、让宝宝自觉自愿地接受任务。给宝宝准备一些图书，或者给他编一些有趣的故事，让他的任务变成他的一种期待。或者父母做出示范动作，但是根本就不要求他去做，他会因为好奇而产生模仿的欲望。

5、利用宝宝的逆反心理，当想要宝宝去做某件事情的时候，反着说出要他完成的任务，这时候，他可能就会按照你实际的要求去做了。

6、有时候，宝宝没有明白父母的真正意图，他也会毫不犹豫地说不。因此，跟宝宝交代任务的时候要眼睛看着宝宝，十分严肃地将任务交给他，这样他会明白你不是在跟他开玩笑，他就不会随随便便说不了。

7、和宝宝轮流来。因为父母也做同样的事，并且大家都有机会去做这样的事情，而且必须按照一定的规则来做，这样他会觉得很有趣，一般都会乐于接受父母的建议。

8、冷落宝宝。如果宝宝不听从父母的建议，不要理睬他，撤销父母对他的注意，让他觉得很无趣，过一段时间他会明白这样不是吸引父母注意的好方式，于是他会尝试改变。

9、2岁左右的宝宝一般都喜欢自己来，因此，当宝宝说不的时候，父母可以想办法鼓励他利用这个机会来显示自己的能耐，他就会乐于自己来了。

10、如果家里有小弟弟小妹妹，鼓励宝宝当小弟弟小妹妹的好榜样，他会尝试担当这个角色。当妈妈说：“你能演示给小弟弟看，自己怎么吃饭吗?”宝宝一定乐于为指导小弟弟自己吃饭做出示范。

11、当想要宝宝去做某件事情的时候，最好给他两个选择，一个是你要他做的事情，另一个就是他不喜欢做的事情，通常宝宝都会选择你要他做的那件事情。

总结下我在英国的日子~

这篇日记,我就用华文来表达好了...开始懒惰了!哈哈!!
来了这里这样久..都没有在部落里提起我在这里的生活...没有原因,就是没有什么特别的事情..想要让我提起精神来写.

其实,我还很喜欢英国, 喜欢这里的夏天!最重要的是...我非常喜欢这里的网购Amazon, ebay等等!!每每..我都会很不小心的click下..就进我的busket, 由于之前有网购记录,第二次购买的时候, 就不需要在问你的credit card no, 地址等问题. 只要你一按buy...假如你没有去cancel order, 等多3天后, 你的货物就送到你家大门....就是这样...我常常很专门的..很不小心按了下..然后就和Mr.Quah说, Opps!!!哈哈哈!!!

来到另一个国土,又刚刚适应有宝宝的我,刚开始在这里日常作息都很乱...时常不知道今天要做什么,今天要煮什么,每天都有个累字.

慢慢的,我开始实适应了,日常作息也有了时间表,办起事情来也很容易.每天,我大概6 或7 点就会起床了,有时侯,我需要准备午餐给我自己,还有Mr.Quah; 有时,我太累,Mr.Quah就帮我煮..他说不舍得我起床..晕!但是,他煮的食物...还真的....不到家(要煮的材料,昨晚就已经切好放进冰箱). 煮好了, 我就趁机上网下, 吃早餐. 宝宝8点准时起床, 给她吃早餐后, 我又开始忙了..抹地,放衣服进洗衣机, 准备她的食物泥, 洗奶瓶等工作. 宝宝就自己看书, 她爱的电视节目开始了,我就和她一起看!! 可是,我在做家务的时候, 嘴巴还是不能停下来, 一直要和她说话, 唱歌给她听, 和她玩躲猫猫游戏...还真的蛮累的.

衣服洗好了...我就让她坐在手推车, 在屋外看我晒衣(讲真...我的衣服都是被冷风吹干的). 她呢? 就看天上的小鸟飞,看飞机..看树在摇摆!!哈哈!!很兴奋呢!!

大约10点,她又闹要小睡了..我就陪她睡. 可是她一睡了...我有偷偷摸摸的去洗澡!哈哈!! 可是她只睡30-45分钟, 起床后, 给她喝点温水, 等多30分钟,我就帮她洗澡...到今天,她还是喜欢洗澡..在大浴缸里冲凉哈哈!! 天天都像在游泳!!哈哈!! (我本身不喜欢啦...因为,我们大人洗澡也是在那里..所以天天要洗浴缸...很累..........)

冲好凉后就给她吃食物泥 (这里的天气冷, 我盛在碗里的食物很快就变冷冰冰, 后来我又买了themos 的小保温杯, 每次只从保温杯里拿出一些, 然后关盖, 这样吃到最后, 还是烧烧的). 吃饱后, 我就陪她玩...有机会的话,她就陪我吃我的午餐咯.

下午, 有时候, 天气好的话, 不太冷, 也不太热, 我就会带她去盪千秋..她很爱呢!!哈哈!! 我就趁机让她和这里的小孩认识认识下...要不然整天闷在家..会怕生呢! 刚开始,她还不能接受外人, 别人摸她..和她哈罗下...她都抱紧我哭.....但是, 给她出去几次..她竟然去摸别的小孩, 还和他们笑!! 这是她给我的惊喜!!哈哈!!

天气不好的话呢!! 我就要陪她闪卡啦, 看故事书啦, 看她爱的节目啦, 玩动物游戏啦...玩爬爬啦!! 我超累的!!

大概5点, Mr.Quah就要回来了, 我就开始煮晚餐和弄热宝宝的食物泥 (当然,我的材料昨晚就已经切好放进盒子了).

煮好, 我们的晚餐, 就给宝贝吃她的食物. 这时候, Mr.Quah就回来了. 他回来了, 帮我照顾宝宝, 我就可以忙厨房的东西. 我们大人吃晚餐, 然后就到宝贝抹身啦...也接着到我们洗澡.

到了晚上...又是要准备明天的午餐和晚餐材料了...(我们俩为了不要想破头脑, 一星期的Menu, 我早早就已经写好, 贴在冰箱, 每天就是对着Menu准备) 哈哈!!

这就是, 我和Mr.Quah的每一天!!

星期日, 我们的家庭日...就出门走走咯!!

就如以下的字那样...虽然辛苦..很忙...很累的每一天...但是,女儿的笑容...笑声..真的让我的疲累..消失得无影无踪~

Bumble bee mom

I really hope I could sit down and have a cup of coffee and write something in my blog....Now my hand is holding a cup of coffee, and my darling Megan was taking a short nap, after finish my coffee, I have to go wash lunch dishes, Megan's dirty clothes, mop the table, clean up the messy toys, and have to make sure the place she play is clean, cause now she start to bite.

So, I have little time to upload pictures over here!! Actually I have many UK pictures to share, but I really can't do it. At night when she sleep, I also tired and fall asleep with her. So, totally don't have my time.

Really time no enough!!!!!!! plus...money no enough too~

You wash, I fold, We arranged!!

Today, Mr.Quah and I washed all the baby's stuff!! Get ready to welcome Baby Megan!! Lot's of napkin...wahahahahah!!! And then, we fold it together and arrange all of it in the Toyogo carbinet!! Yeah!! What a tiring morning!!!

Mid-Autumn Festival 2009 中秋节快乐！

This year mid-autumn festival night we celebrate without the round round moon, it was raining all the night..Too bad.
But, this was the first time, I celebrated with my mother-in-law and sister-in-law!! so, quite new for me!!
And just because of the rain outside, we just light the lantern in the balcony and listen to the rain drop!! wahahha!!

Holiday in Cameron Highland and Ipoh

This trip was plan when Mr.Quah still work in Oman. Cause he need to go KL to settle his next project visa. So, I have a good opportunity to get out from the house!! wahaha!! Some more I think, next time maybe will be more difficult to go travel with baby!! So........I must play hard first!! wahahhaha!!

We stay in Brinchang "Strawberry Park Resort". This is the wonderful place!! If you come to Cameron, I strongly recommend this resort. Cause the room is nice, and buffet was nice.

Some nice view on the way to find out where is the Boh tea shop, we want to go!!

We take long time to find out this Boh tea shop..cause didn't do much research about this place. We went to Boh tea plantation around Habu area. But we can't find this place!! But we didn't give up, we try another Boh tea plantation in Sungai Palas....wah..really a long long way to get there!!! We are so happy, finally we found this place!! Very beautiful and very windy!!

We went to the bee farm too!! Nice garden view there!! And lots of bee flying here and there!!

Enjoying steamboat in the cool weather is so nice! No sweating at all!! Mr.Quah and me take one and half hour finish all this!! hahaha!! This restaurant is located around Brinchang area!

On the way back to Penang. We went to Ipoh to try this....Chicken and Bean Sprouts with rice!! Yummy!!

Congrats to my brother!!

Congrats to my brother!! Finally he did it!! Finished his Bachelor of Communications & Computers in UKM!! And now he work in DIGI telecommunications company.

I went to his convocation, OMG some more have to wear mask in such hot weather!!! All people is advice to wear mask because of H1N1!! Especially pregnant lady and young kid!! My mask almost wet, and I feel so irritated on my face!!! Ah dooi!!! hahaha!!

Right after his convocation, we went to take this photo in Studio near by!! hehe!! Congrats to him again!!! Hope he will have a wonderful future!!

We have been together for 6th years!!

Some say that pregnant women are forgetful! ! If I didn't experience such feelings I think I will not understand! ! Today is the 6th year Mr.Quah and I get together! ! But I had totally forgotten it. . . Ha ha! ! Fortunately, he didn't blame me! ! Although this is a special day for us, but Mr.Quah and I were separated far away! ! em..sound sad!! haha!! But doesn't matter la! we already reach the stable stage in our relationship, is quite different from those who just in love! Ha ha! ! So, there will be no special celebration. Em...in other word to comfort myself, without this celebration, we can save money to buy more baby stuff!! wahahahaha!!
So, in this special day, I did not expect any present any celebration. . . Just hope that we both love will never end, take care each other forever and ever!! Love you! !


别人说孕妇很善忘！！没有亲身体验都不能了解这感受！！今天是我和Mr.Quah在一起的第六年！！我竟然把它忘得一干二净。。。哈哈！！幸好他没怪我！！虽然今天是个特别的日子，但是我和他却是身在异乡，都不在同一个国度！！没关系啦！又不是。。。热恋中的男女！哈哈！！所以就没有特别的庆祝。顺便安慰自己说，这样可以省下庆祝的钱，买更多宝宝的东西！！哈哈！！
再这特别的日子，我没有奢望些什么。。。只是希望我们俩的爱情能永远保温，不弃不离！！爱你！！