我们的结婚日子 our wedding date

话说我们的结婚日子，真的来的不容易。为什么呢？说来话长！！在２００７年６月注册结婚，因为通书还没出版，老人家说要等到２００８年２月份。等了８个月的通书终于出了。男方家看了第一个日子在２００８年１２月２１日（冬至）。但我妈妈不太喜欢这个日子，原因是怕亲戚朋友忙着冬至不能来参加我们的婚礼。所以，我就提起勇气向未来家婆提出换日子的要求。所以，我妈妈，未来家婆还有我，一起到北海那里看新日子。配了我们俩的时辰八字，还有两家双亲的时辰八字，再加上考量Mr.Quah的工作时间表。我们选定了 ２００８ 年１２月２９日 （星期一）。我总觉得我的结婚日子真的很艰难才能拿到！！

在说，我时常看了很多结婚网站，所列出的结婚日子都没有２００８ 年１２月２９日 ，还说这日子是不适合结婚的。当时的我真的很担心，难到我注定还要换多一次结婚日子？？不是吧！！好麻烦哦！！换又不对，不换我们又担心。直到我看到了Lilian Too 的网站写着。Good day to Wed, ２００８ 年１２月２９日是个好日子。我俩的心才真正安下来！！哈哈！！终于！！

Our wedding date, is so difficult to get it!! Why?? you may ask!! This is really a long long story!! okok!! Still remember we register our marriage at Jun, 2007, Chinese old folk believe if you want to get next year wedding date you must wait after next year Chinese New years in February, when the new year of Chinese almanacs (or tong shing in chinese) is published then the old folk can check the auspicious day according to the book. So, I wait for 8 months to till 2008 Chinese New year. Finally, my future mother-in-law get the wedding date for us, is on 21/12/08 (winter solstice festival). But, my mother dislike this wedding date, cause she say on this day most of the relatives will pray and busy preparing their own celebration. So, our relatives might not able to attend my wedding, so she wants me to make a phone call to Mr.Quah's mom, to change the date. I am so worry and think this might trouble my future mother-in-law too. Finally, I call her and she did agree this explanation and agree to change the date. Luckily!! Then, the next day, 3 of us (my mom, mother-in-law, and I) went to Butterworth (i also don't know the actual place) ask one of the master to help us pick the wedding auspicious day. We gave him our "four pillars of our birthday" and both side parents birthday date also needed. Plus Mr.Quah working schedule. So, finally we decided on 29/12/08 (Monday).

After I get my wedding date, I read at wedding forum or website and found out 29/12/08 is not a good day to get marry. This information make us really down and worry. Do I need to change our wedding day again??? No!! Please don't change it again, I shout in my heart!!! Until one day, my brother sent me Lilian Too's world of feng shui website, and we found out she say 29/12/08 is a good day to wed. Finally, our stress are released and decided not to change the date anymore!! hahaha...now you understand what I mean my wedding date is very difficult to get it??





Red color in the calender indicate auspicious day, and the gray color indicate inauspicious day and the white color indicate indifferent day.