我常听人说命运是天定的，没有一个人能逃离命运中的安排。发生什么不如意的事情时，往往都会怨天怨地。又或者埋怨身边的人，事，物带来衰运给他。但人有没有想过命运其实是自己的心态，行为，习惯造成的呢？是自己的心态，行为，习惯带来的衰运呢？
就说一个年轻人，刚外国毕业回国，虽然他有学历，有实力，样貌都不错，但是终是做什么工作都不长久，不是自己辞职，就是老板给他大信封。他也为自己一直换工的事情感到苦恼。本来刚找到一份自己很喜欢的工作，自己也感满怀信心可以表现出色的工，但不知怎的，就被老板炒了。可能这时候的他，会怨天尤人，怨命运玩弄他。但是，他没有想到是他心态出了问题，他常常觉得他人不如自己，自己才是公司里的精英，他觉得公司的老臣子应该退休回家。就是因为他有这样的心态，所以他的行为也对应了他的心态。平时在公司里他太嚣张了，对同事说话也处处不饶人，说什么也一定是自己对，自己赢。久而久之，他这种骄傲的行为变成了他的习惯。有时，对老板说话，自然的表现得高傲，让人觉得他很轻浮。很难将大工程交给他做。所以，老板觉得此人没有什么表现之出，所以把他给炒了。
他接下来的几份工，都是难逃离职，被迫离职的结果。就这样变成了他的命运。假如，他还找不出是他的心态，行为，习惯造成的，可能他会觉得是他的本命，做什么都不能成功，是天不给他机会。我们身为局外人，就看得很清楚，这样的命运是他自己造成的。
所以，我们常常要留意自己的心态，因为它能影响我们的行为；要留意我们的行为，因为它能影响我们的习惯；也要留意我们的习惯，因为它能影响我们的命运。
就说一个年轻人，刚外国毕业回国，虽然他有学历，有实力，样貌都不错，但是终是做什么工作都不长久，不是自己辞职，就是老板给他大信封。他也为自己一直换工的事情感到苦恼。本来刚找到一份自己很喜欢的工作，自己也感满怀信心可以表现出色的工，但不知怎的，就被老板炒了。可能这时候的他，会怨天尤人，怨命运玩弄他。但是，他没有想到是他心态出了问题，他常常觉得他人不如自己，自己才是公司里的精英，他觉得公司的老臣子应该退休回家。就是因为他有这样的心态，所以他的行为也对应了他的心态。平时在公司里他太嚣张了，对同事说话也处处不饶人，说什么也一定是自己对，自己赢。久而久之，他这种骄傲的行为变成了他的习惯。有时，对老板说话，自然的表现得高傲，让人觉得他很轻浮。很难将大工程交给他做。所以，老板觉得此人没有什么表现之出，所以把他给炒了。
他接下来的几份工，都是难逃离职，被迫离职的结果。就这样变成了他的命运。假如，他还找不出是他的心态，行为，习惯造成的，可能他会觉得是他的本命，做什么都不能成功，是天不给他机会。我们身为局外人，就看得很清楚，这样的命运是他自己造成的。
所以，我们常常要留意自己的心态，因为它能影响我们的行为；要留意我们的行为，因为它能影响我们的习惯；也要留意我们的习惯，因为它能影响我们的命运。
Have you ever heard that, people's fate is pre-determined by god or something you may not know. Not one can change our life or can rearrange our life. When some bad thing happened, normally we will blame god or we will blame our fate. Sometimes, you may blame people around you, or thing around you, bring all the bad luck for you. Do you ever think that, your fate is pre-determined by your thinking, behavior, or habit?? Or all the bad luck is determined by your thinking, behavior, or habit??
Share with you a story. A young men, just graduate from oversea university, has a very excellent result, and tangible achievement in school. But, he always change his working enviroment. Sometime he resign just because the working enviroment is not suitable for him; Sometime he is abandon by his boss. He himself also feel sad and distress because of this. When he really enjoy and believe he can preform well in a work, but end up he was abandon by his boss. Maybe he will blame others causing him lost this good opputunity. But he never think that all the problem is from himself. He always think that he is the smarter one in the company, all the old stuff should resign and retired, no one is better that him. So, his thinking corresponding to his behavior. He is very arrogance in the company, he never forgive people, when people say something wrong. In company meeting, he always assume that all his suggestion is the best and no one think better that this. He make all the stuff feel bad and unhappy. As time passes, this behavior became his habit. When he talk with his boss, he will just act like usal. He talk arrogance, somthing he cannot do also he claim that he can do compare to the old stuff. So, his boss feel that he is too levity cannot handle a some important project. As a result, he is abandon by his boss again.
So on, his working life cycle is repeated. He never work permently to a company. If he never realise that his thinking, behavior, habit cause his fate. Maybe he will blame his fate, or he will cry to the sky and asking why he has this poor life and fate. But we as a outsider, can see clearly his fate is done by himself. No one is pre-determined his life and fate.
So, we must always review our thinking, because it may influence our behavior; We must always review our bahavior, because it may influence our habit; and lastly we mush always review our habit, because it may influence our fate.
Share with you a story. A young men, just graduate from oversea university, has a very excellent result, and tangible achievement in school. But, he always change his working enviroment. Sometime he resign just because the working enviroment is not suitable for him; Sometime he is abandon by his boss. He himself also feel sad and distress because of this. When he really enjoy and believe he can preform well in a work, but end up he was abandon by his boss. Maybe he will blame others causing him lost this good opputunity. But he never think that all the problem is from himself. He always think that he is the smarter one in the company, all the old stuff should resign and retired, no one is better that him. So, his thinking corresponding to his behavior. He is very arrogance in the company, he never forgive people, when people say something wrong. In company meeting, he always assume that all his suggestion is the best and no one think better that this. He make all the stuff feel bad and unhappy. As time passes, this behavior became his habit. When he talk with his boss, he will just act like usal. He talk arrogance, somthing he cannot do also he claim that he can do compare to the old stuff. So, his boss feel that he is too levity cannot handle a some important project. As a result, he is abandon by his boss again.
So on, his working life cycle is repeated. He never work permently to a company. If he never realise that his thinking, behavior, habit cause his fate. Maybe he will blame his fate, or he will cry to the sky and asking why he has this poor life and fate. But we as a outsider, can see clearly his fate is done by himself. No one is pre-determined his life and fate.
So, we must always review our thinking, because it may influence our behavior; We must always review our bahavior, because it may influence our habit; and lastly we mush always review our habit, because it may influence our fate.
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